Time for another reflective post! One thing I hear all the time working in an office is people saying things like, “Is it Friday yet?”
Now, I don’t know about you, but I just think this is a funny thing to say. If all you can think about is the weekend, doesn’t that mean you don’t want to be there? I don’t know what other conclusion to draw.
Even if I’m wrong, I don’t think my mind is going to a completely irrational place on this one.
My question is this: many of us seem unhappy, so why aren’t we doing anything about it!?
Living for the Friday? Why not live for the week instead?
Look, I get it – we all have bills to pay. But is this really the best way to do it?
I guess to a certain extent, I am calling into question the way we live our adult lives as a whole, rather than any one person. Nevertheless, if all we do is perpetually think about the weekend, shouldn’t we be doing something about it?
Truthfully, that is one of the reasons I started this blog – my hope is that it could eventually become a source of income. That is far from the only reason, though. I really do enjoy writing.
And even if I did start making money from sources other than my job, I’m not necessarily expecting to be able to leave it any time soon. What can I say – I want to be realistic here.
But enough about me. What about you?
Are you one of those people who gets in the elevator and says, “Is it the weekend yet?” Do you find yourself daydreaming during work, thinking about how much fun the weekend will be? Maybe you just can’t wait to go on a vacation to get away from it all?
If you said yes to some or all of those, my question is this: what is stopping you? These are pretty clear signs you aren’t happy, so why aren’t you doing anything about it?
What if you are your own worst enemy?
Okay, so I may not know you personally. But if you are anything like the average person, some things that may be holding you back are:
- You’re scared of what might happen if you leave. Maybe you don’t even know what exactly you’re afraid of – you just know you are.
- You have already come up with some steps that would allow you to live the life you really want. Despite that, it’s going to be a lot of work, and you just don’t know if you have the motivation.
- Maybe you have a family and you are worried about how making a major change would impact them.
I can only do so much to help your motivation, but a lot of these other concerns can actually be helped by an emergency fund. Or, if you want to play it even safer, you could build a buffer beyond your emergency fund.
At the end of the day, it’s up to you
The purpose of this post is to call into question the way things often work in our society. Sure, I do realize that as a single, childless person, it might seem like I have a lot more flexibility than most. And even I have yet to make any meaningful changes. But hey, I’m just getting started.
And like I said, having that extra buffer can make a huge difference in terms of your flexibility. That is something I am working on right now.
If you aren’t able to build a buffer, the key is to create a budget and figure out how you can reduce your expenses far enough below your income. Having everything laid out in front of you is a big help.
Makes changes in your life can be scary, but I think sometimes, they are necessary – like if you aren’t happy.
Are you currently at a job you hate? If so, hopefully this serves as a bit of motivation. Just remember – at the end of the day, it’s up to you to make a change!